“I had the sweet feeling that this new baby was a special gift”

Joy and Jane BarryBy: Joy Barry

I was blessed to be raised on a diet healthier than the standard American variety. In the 1970s when most kids were living on toaster pastries, Twinkies, and Wonder Bread, we were grinding our own wheat to make whole wheat bread and cracked wheat porridge. When we made cookies or Kool-Aid, my father insisted on using half the sugar that the recipe called for. As I grew older and moved away from home, I continued to cook most things from scratch, the way I was brought up. I wasn’t too concerned about health or a balanced diet, it was more about saving money and making homemade food that tasted better. Besides, I never had to worry about losing weight as I was always trim and thin as a child and young adult. I never even exercised.

When I hit my mid-20s, I started to put on a little bit of weight. It concerned me enough that I started exercising to try to get in shape. But all my bike-riding just left me worn out and discouraged. It never occurred to me that my diet was to blame. I thought I was doing just fine.

I married at age 29 and had my first child when I was 30. My new role as a wife and mother made me more concerned about healthy eating. It was not just about me anymore, I had a family to feed. The responsibility to not just feed my family, but to feed them well, rested heavy on my conscience. I read everything online that I could find about healthy diets and worried much about how to best feed my family a balanced diet.

Although I read many conflicting opinions from various “experts,” I felt blessed to have the Word of Wisdom as my foundation. If I read anything that said to eat lots of meat and avoid grains, I dismissed it immediately. However, I always wished that the Word of Wisdom had more specifics. I thought it was too vague and didn’t cover all the food groups. I knew it said to eat meat sparingly, and I tried to follow that advice, but what about eggs and dairy products? I also worried much about what kind of oils were the healthy ones, and other hotly debated topics.

The more I read about healthy diets, the more I became convinced that the common-sense diet to follow was a whole food diet. Why should we need to change or refine the foods that God provides? I began to clean up my diet, eliminating processed things like sugar, white flour, and fruit juice. (It never occurred to me that oil and butter were refined foods.) I learned to cook everything with whole wheat flour, and I used dates and other fruits to sweeten our desserts. I also worried much about the meat, milk, and eggs from factory farms, so we managed to squeeze a dozen laying hens and three milk goats onto our small city lot. When money allowed, we ordered free-range organic chickens and a side of grass-fed beef to fill our freezer. I greatly reduced the amount of meat I bought at the grocery store.

Joy Barry Before Photo

Joy Barry about 7 months before changing her diet

By now I had three children and had gained about 10 pounds for each one. I was relatively healthy, but I felt like I should be healthier. I ate a better diet than most people I knew, yet why was I plagued with this excess weight? I also had some eczema that periodically irritated my hands and eyes. It sometimes got so bad that my eyes swelled shut. I tried lots of things to try to find the root of this problem; I tried going dairy-free and then gluten free, but nothing seemed to work. Another annoyance was some chest congestion that made it hard to breathe in the mornings. Many times I half-heartedly tried to get in the habit of exercising, but I always lost motivation when I was discouraged with no positive results for my efforts. I figured I was just doomed to become heavier and heavier as the years went on.

In January of 2014, I was determined to make some changes. That was the year that I was going to turn 40, so I decided to give a gift to myself and lose 40 pounds in time for my birthday in June. I wasn’t sure how to do that, though. I had been praying for years for knowledge about the best diet, and for the will to eat it! Now I started praying extra hard that I would be able to lose weight, and especially that I would be able to clear up my chest congestion. I was anxious to breathe freely because I wanted to be able to sing for the ward choir. We have a tiny choir, and I am about the only alto. A performance was coming up in a few weeks, and I needed to be able to breathe better to sing loud enough. All the natural remedies I had been trying weren’t working, so my prayers were especially fervent.

It was then that I saw a link on Facebook to a book review of Discovering the Word of Wisdom. As soon as I saw it, I knew I had to read it. I had always compared any diet advice to the Word of Wisdom, and here was a book that had already done it for me! I bought the e-book and took an entire day to read it cover to cover (while my home-schooled children had a day off and watched TV all day, ha!). At the end of the day I was in a bit of shock and denial, but I could not ignore the spirit that I felt as I read it. Everything the author, Jane Birch, had said made perfect sense, and now I realized that the Word of Wisdom said nothing about dairy or eggs because we didn’t need them! It was like everything that I had studied about diet, history (Benjamin Franklin’s writings, for one), and religion all came into alignment and the Word of Wisdom was finally crystal clear. Even my experiences with my own farm animals clicked on like a lightbulb.

But I wasn’t completely convinced that this plant-based diet could be right. I had always admired vegans and vegetarians for living their convictions, but I believed that vegans were sacrificing their own health for the good of the animals. How could you be healthy if you cut out two whole food groups? All misgivings aside, I was determined to try out the diet as an experiment, at least until my birthday in June. I believed that “If any man will do his will, he shall know of the doctrine, whether it be of God, or whether I speak of myself” (John 7:17). I went to bed that night sorrowing because I loved to cook and bake, but I thought that my cooking days were over. I had experimented enough in the kitchen to know that there are substitutions for milk and eggs, but how could I make anything without oil or butter? I thought I was doomed to eat nothing but steamed brown rice and vegetables for the rest of my life.

The next morning I googled “whole food plant based recipes” hoping to find at least one website or book that could help me out. Instead, I was blown away by the sheer number of blogs and cookbooks devoted to this type of food. In all my Internet searching, how had I never discovered this before? Since then, my love of cooking and baking hasn’t stopped, but I had to re-learn how to cook everything. I eventually got rid of all my old cherished cook books to make way for the new ones. I found that this new way of cooking doesn’t produce the same results as the old way. But different is good. In many cases, it can even be much better! When you think about it, why do people cook the way they do? I believe the traditions have been passed down, mostly from the rich food cooked in France. But recipes can be yummy and make you feel great at the same time.

I went cold-turkey with the new diet from day one, and at first, I did experience weird withdrawal symptoms. For about a week, I had terrible heartburn whenever I took a bite of any food; it was strange. My eczema also flared up again (for the last time!). And my body kept telling me that I would be fine if I could just eat some biscuits like they sell at KFC, made with white flour and butter. But my mind told me that this was ridiculous, and I had faith that certainly I would survive at least 5 months without animal products. After a week or two, these strange feelings went away. And I discovered I could breathe deeply again, just in time to sing loudly in Sacrament Meeting with the choir, yay!

And then of course, my weight started dropping dramatically. I lost 1-2 pounds a week, without doing an ounce of exercise. I certainly wasn’t “dieting,” and I was eating plenty of high-fat things like avocados and nuts. I just made sure that most everything I ate fell into the plant-based whole food category. Within a month, I knew I would never go back to my omnivore ways. I just felt so full of energy and life, and there was a spring in my step that I hadn’t felt in a long time. I didn’t quite make my original goal of losing 40 pounds by my 40th birthday, but I hit that mark about a month later.

Shortly after I hit that goal weight, I had the happy surprise of finding out I was pregnant. It was a shock to me because I assumed I was well past my child-bearing years. I had been pregnant two years earlier, but it ended with a miscarriage at 17 weeks. Although we longed for another child, I had the distinct impression that I would not have any more children because my body could not handle it, and that I should be grateful for the three children I had already been blessed with. So I had accepted that fact and moved on with my life. Now I found my body recharged and ready to grow a new life!

Jane Barry August 2015

Baby Jane at 4 months (August 2015)

Early on in my pregnancy, I had the sweet feeling that this new baby was a special gift to me because I had changed my destiny by changing my diet. And I felt the impression that I would have a girl and that I should name her Jane, because without Jane Birch and her book, I would have not had this baby.

I was very sick the first part of my pregnancy, and very tired through the whole thing, but I stuck with my vegan diet the whole time. I did let some things slide because of sheer exhaustion, namely I would sometimes rely on vegan convenience meals that are always loaded with too much oil. Still, this pregnancy was definitely the healthiest one I had had, and I only gained about 18 pounds instead of the usual 40. My sweet baby Jane was born in April of 2015, and the labor was quick and easy. Jane is about 10 months old now, and healthy as a horse. I have kept with my vegan diet the whole time and still have had plenty of milk for her.

I still haven’t lost all the weight I gained during pregnancy, mostly because of the habit I developed during pregnancy of turning to things like Boca Burgers when I am too exhausted to cook. But I have committed anew to ridding the oil that has crept back into my diet, and I am confident that I will be able to lose another 10-20 pounds without much effort.

My husband and children have been very supportive through this whole journey. I have not forced my children to eat the way I do, but I have been teaching them proper principles, and I know they believe it. I was worried that my husband would protest, but I felt strongly that this revelation was not just for me, but for my family as well. So I informed them all from the start that if they wanted to eat junk food and meat, they would have to make it themselves, as from now on I was only cooking whole food plant based meals. I would say that their spirits are willing, but their flesh is weak. They eat and enjoy everything I make, but if we are at a party or restaurant, they will choose to eat things like hamburgers and ice cream. I think that someday my husband will commit more to the diet, he says he is just not ready yet.

I feel so great and so healthy that I know I will never go back to my omnivore days. It was just such a relief to me when I learned that I could be totally healthy without animal products. I loved my chickens and goats, but it was a lot of work to keep their pens clean, keep them fed, and milk the goats twice a day. It was so nice to get rid of them when I realized I didn’t need them anymore. I had also experienced the pain of raising an animal, and then having to kill it and slaughter it to eat it. (Truthfully, I made my husband do the dirty work.) I am positive that there would be a lot more vegetarians in the world if people were more aware of the trouble, heartache, and sheer amount of hard work that goes into raising and slaughtering animals for food. It took us longer to slaughter and clean a chicken than it does to eat it!

On a more spiritual note, I want to add the same sentiment as others have. I started this diet strictly for my own health, but have become even more aware of the feelings and sufferings of animals as a result. I don’t get to attend the temple very often because of our remote Alaska location, but the last time I went, I was amazed to listen to doctrine about animals that I had never paid attention to before. I wanted to stand up and shout, “Can everybody hear this? They weren’t created just to satisfy our cravings for bacon!” I know a lot of people that will get on their soapboxes to decry cruelty to animals (meaning dogs and cats), but also eat an excess of factory-farmed animals without a second thought of where their food came from.

I also have come to understand the part of my patriarchal blessing that admonishes me to live the Word of Wisdom. That part had always puzzled me since I have had absolutely zero temptations in my life to drink or smoke. I never even wanted to drink a caffeinated soda. Now I understand that this meant to follow the rest of the Word of Wisdom that most members fail to live. I want to make it clear that I do not judge people for not following Section 89 more closely. I know I used to be one of those people. And furthermore, I know that it is not a commandment, but rather a suggestion with blessings attached. I just don’t understand why anyone would rather have bacon instead of the promised blessings of wisdom and health.

I will be forever grateful to Jane Birch for taking the time to research and write her book. I feel like it was the answer to all my prayers, and that she wrote it just for me.

Joy (41) grew up in Arizona and Minnesota. She served an LDS mission in Costa Rica where she learned to survive mainly on rice and black beans and loved every spoonful! She attended BYU-Provo and graduated with a degree in Geography. She now lives in Alaska with her husband and four children. She keeps busy homeschooling her children, but finds enough spare time to sew handmade goods to sell in her Etsy shop, teach violin lessons, and attend band practices and gigs with the two bands she plays in. 


  1. This story just tickles me pink. I can’t get over how happy it makes me feel to see sweet baby Jane and to know the marvelous story behind her birth. I’m so happy for Joy and for her success in discovering this happy way of eating that has brought so many blessings.

    Thanks, Joy, for giving me a sweet gift by sharing your story and allowing me to share it with the world. You and your family will always be very special to me!

  2. Thanks for sharing your story! My husband is also understanding his Patriarchal Blessing better since we started eating this way, and I had the same experience on my mission…surviving on rice and beans. I loved it, too.

  3. Joy, I’m so glad that you chose to name your baby. Jane. As you already knew, Jane Birch’s parents, had given her the name, Abbie Jane Birch and we decided to call her by her middle name. She was the oldest of nine children that I assisted Jane Birch’s dear mother, Judith Ann Birch to bring into this world. I hope that your dear daughter, Jane, chooses, at some point in time in her life, to eat, inasmuch as she was named after our dear Jane, just as Jane Birch has taught in her very special book, “Discovering the Word of Wisdom,” and come to realize as she grows up that each one of us should devote ourselves to eating the way our Lord, Jesus Christ has taught all of us to do, in that marvelous revelation, Section 89 of the Doctrine and Covenants, verses 10 through 21.

    May the Lord continue to bless you and your special husband and your dear and special baby Jane, and each of the children who may follow her into this world; with much good health and the happiness that comes from eating the way the Lord advises all of His children to eat!

  4. Joy

    Thank you so much for your story. I could have written this same one, but in a different order!

    I tried to eat healthy and learn everything I could about food. I loved to grind my wheat and make yummy whole wheat bread. I always joked that I wasn’t afraid of butter because it was a real food, it was the fake plastic margarine that scared me. 🙂 i followed the Word of Wisdom as I understood it, but kept seeing I was missing something because I gained weight with every baby and kept a little each time. The eczema and other health concerns that couldn’t be cured by doctors left me frustrated and wondering what I was doing wrong. i almost conceded that it was just the modern world and no way around it. Prayer led me to change my soap and fabrics. i was then pleasantly surprised to find that not only was my skin better, but I was pregnant! After my baby was born I started changing my habits, like giving up chocolate, so that I would be healthy enough to have more children. I too wondered about the reference to the Word of Wisdom in my patriarchal blessing. I too worried and prayed over feeding my family. I too have prepared a chicken myself from live to soup! Luckily, the chicken came from my sister so I didn’t have to raise it. When we recently moved into our new home I was so excited to finally have a place to live me dream of chickens and bees only to find the Spirit whisper that I would not. I quickly understood why, I would not be eating the chickens, eggs, or honey like I planned, it was time to take the next step in living the Word of Wisdom. I have visited this site a variety of times, but finally I knew it was time to live it more fully. I only planned on trying vegetarian, then I thought I would try giving up dairy as well. I’ve only been doing this a short time, but it is going well. I didn’t see how giving up oil and salt would work long term, but your story has inspired me (I couldn’t believe it when I read it just now how much we have in common, even needing to breathe better for singing! you are just slightly older/ahead of me.) I’m going to make a whole, not half-hearted effort to go all the way. Thank you!

  5. Thank you for your great story, Jane. Gradually, we shall convince our nations that the Word of Wisdom diet is the best diet for our survival.

  6. Thank you so much for sharing your inspiring story!! I loved reading of your experience and began contemplating where I’ve been and what this change could mean for me. Thank you for sharing how going 100% had changed changed your life!

  7. Joy thank you so much for your story, it truly inspired me to continue my journey! As a side note my daughter is currently serving a mission in Alaska and loves it there . Again thank you for your story! -Sherri Albrecht

  8. Joy,

    I believe you are sister to Julie, my former roommate in Minneapolis, of the wonderful Price family. She always reminded me of her sister in Ketchikan. I live on the Kenai Peninsula and have such a similar WFPB story to yours. It has delighted me to finally “meet” you and to have so much in common. Perhaps we shall meet in person on one of your Anchorage temple trips one day?!

    Jessica, Cooper Landing

    • Yes, small world! I don’t make it to Anchorage very often as Seattle is much closer, but I have always wanted to check out the Kenai Peninsula. Maybe I can run into you there.

  9. Beautifully written! I especially love the blessing of another child to join your family, and especially your feelings early on in the pregnancy regarding her birth; extraordinary! Thank you for sharing.

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